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10 Sex Toys Every Gay Man Should Own

It may seem sometimes like the sex toy market is heavily skewed towards women, with hundreds of g-spot and clitoral vibes gracing almost every store and website. And don’t forget all those cute rabbit vibes.

We here at Betty’s wanted to let all you guys out there know that we have you covered too. Gay, straight, or bi, if you have a penis, we have some fantastic toys to spice things up with your partner or enhance your solo play.

1. Great Multi-Purpose Lube

Pjur Back Door Glide Silicone Lube is a favorite for anal sex because it not only has a fantastic glide, but the added jojoba helps to relax the anal sphincter muscles. It is also formulated to be latex condom friendly, which is an absolute must in any silicone lubricant. The entire Ride Bodyworx line by Sliquid is also made specifically for the male sexual experience and uses only top quality ingredients. 

2. Lube Applicator

Nothing kills the mood like running low on lube but having to fumble around for a clumsy bottle can also put a bit damper on the action. Enter the One Shot XL Lubricant Launcher. Just fill it beforehand with your favorite lube and you have a precision applicator that can easily and quickly get more lube to those hard-to-reach places. Brilliant!

3. High Quality Anal Beads

There are hundreds of anal beads on the market and it’s no wonder. They feel fantastic and can take an orgasm to toe-curlingly amazing levels. But, do yourself a favor and look for good quality, beads made out of a non-porous, easy-to-clean material like glass, metal, or silicone. We love the Tantus Vibrating Progressive Anal Beads because they are made of great quality silicone and contain a 3 speed vibrating bullet as an added bonus!

4. Truly Fantastic Dildo

Dildos aren't just for solo play. They're a great way to keep the action going all night or to show off your oral skills. For anal or vaginal use, we always recommend silicone, glass, or metal, because they are non-porous and easy to disinfect. You simply can't beat Vixen Creation dildos for their commitment to realism in look and in feel, with a size and shape sure to please everyone. Vixen Buck (pictured here) is the epitome of Vixen style, with 3 glorious flesh tones to choose from. 

5. Fleshlight


Fleshlight has been the number one name in masturbation sleeves for years and now they’ve expanded their line to more compact, discreet masturbators that are still fantastic but easier to travel with. 



6. Prostate and/or Perineum Play Toy

The good people at Aneros know a lot about anal and prostate stimulation and have put years of research into their products. The Aneros Trident MGX Prostate Massager  looks simple but its precise design gives anal, prostate, and perineum stimulation all in one simple little package. And because it’s made of plastic, it’s non-porous and easy to disinfect when the fun is over.

7. Vibrating Prostate Play Toy

When a simple stimulator won’t do, you can rely on the Rocks Off Naughty Boy Vibrating Prostate Massager. Regular vibrators are great, but nothing compares to something built with the exact curve a guy needs to hit the right spot.

8. Cock Ring (or Two)

Whether it’s for solo play or with a partner, cock rings are a great way to test your limits and stay on the edge longer. One that our customers seem to love is the C-Sling Cock Ring and Sling by Tantus. The stretchy silicone is no-porous and body safe, but the added sling portion gently rubs across the perineum giving an extra thrill. The Stay Hard Silicone Double Loop Cock Rings by Blush are also extremely popular because of their affordable price and their ability to be adjusted for a snug fit. 


9. Butt Plug or Anal Trainer Kit

We firmly believe that anal play is a joy that everybody should experience at some point. This Nexus Anal Starter Kit has great quality silicone and 3 graduated sizes that let you work your way up. And, unlike some other anal trainer kits, this set has a distinctive shape that makes it ideal for prostate stimulation. B Vibe plugs are the gold standard if you're looking for some vibration, with a size and shape to make anybody happy. 

  1. One Really Decadent Luxury Toy

LELO is one of the best know names in luxury vibrators but did you know that they have some designs just for men? Loki, the World’s Strongest Prostate Massager, is waterproof, rechargeable, and features 6 settings that reach mind blowing intensity. It also has a flared ring before the handle that is designed let you safely reach maximum insertion. That flare is something women-focussed toys don’t have and one that can keep the powerful sphincter muscles from drawing a toy too far into the body and ending up an ER statistic.

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