6 Biggest Booty Play Myths Busted by Betty's Sexperts!
Anal play is probably one of the most pleasurable but least understood options at the pleasure buffet. That's why Betty's sexperts are breaking down the top 6 myths they hear time and again when it comes to backdoor activities.
Myth #6 Anal play is only for adventurous, kinky people or gay men
Busted!
People of all genders, orientations, and walks of life enjoy anal play as a pleasurable and fulfilling part of their intimate lives, both solo and with partners.
Myth #5 Anal sex will stretch me out or weaken my muscles
Busted!
The anal sphincters (the muscles of your butt hole) are incredibly strong and are designed to expand and contract repeatedly - think of how they open and close when you poop. Like an elastic band, they snap back into place when there is no longer pressure on them.
Myth #4 Anal only feels good if you have a prostate
Busted!
Both the anal sphincter and canal are full of highly concentrated and sensitive nerve endings, which can light up with pleasure when stimulated. Anal penetration can also stimulate the internal legs of the clitoris and G-spot area for deep, blended orgasms.
Myth #3 Anal play should look like what we see in porn
Busted!
Porn actors can spend days preparing for an anal sex scene, with modifications to their diets, thorough douching, stretching the muscles off-camera, and applying lube internally before being penetrated. That's Hollywood magic, not human reality.
Myth #2 It's going to hurt
Busted!
If anal play hurts, you are doing something wrong. Successful backdoor fun requires relaxation, communication, preparation, and lots and lots of lube and patience. Start with something small like a finger or a small anal plug, and when you can use that comfortably, you can work up to something larger.
Myth #1 Anal sex is messy
Busted!
The biggest concern we hear about anal play is that it will be dirty, and we aren't going to lie to you. Poop can happen. BUT it is highly unlikely. Stool resides in the lower intestine, which is beyond where a toy, finger, or penis is going to venture. If you have had a regular bowel movement recently and don't feel you need to go, you should be fine. If you're still nervous, you can use a douche beforehand. But our favorite recommendation for spontaneous anal play without worry is to use a condom on your partner or toy, which eliminates any worries you may have.
