At Betty’s we strongly believe that everybody has the right to express themselves sexually either solo or with a partner but sometimes folks just need a little boost to make things happen.
Mobility challenges can be as varied as the people experiencing them. Ageing, disability, illness, body shape or size, and chronic conditions can all be a challenge at maintaining a healthy and active sex life but we at Betty’s are here to help.
Read on as we break down some of our favorite products according to what challenges they can best address and how.
POSITIONING AIDS AND BOOSTERS
If you have never heard of Liberator, let us sing their praises. They make dense foam core positioning items and sex toy mounts covered in waterproof, washable, luxurious and fashionable fabric.
Our absolute favorites are their wedges and ramps. You can get a ramp alone, a wedge alone, or a combo of the two. Here’s just a taste of what they can do
- Elevate hips and/or knees to achieve positions
- Protect knees
- Elevate the pelvis
- Take pressure off the lower back
- Ease positions for oral sex
Honorable mention also goes to
Sportsheets Plus Size Doggie Style Strap
Not just for doggie style, this strap can help give some power to your thrusting or you can put your feet in the hand holds to keep your legs spread.
The only limits of this simple strap are your imagination.
Wand Assist Adjustable Gooseneck Hands-Free Wand Holder
This may be a bit more specialized but if you have trouble holding a wand, and want that powerful rumbly vibration, this clamp may be for you. You can see in the picture how it attaches, and it can hold a wand vibrator in place where you need it.
VIBRATORS & DILDOS WITH LONG HANDLES
Vibrators can be a problem if you have trouble with your grip or an inability to reach where you want them. Here a few great examples of vibrators with elongated handle or specifically curved handles that can give you that extra reach.
Wellness G Wave Dual Stimulation Vibrator
This is the longest handled rabbit style vibrator, made for g-spot and clitoral play.
You don’t have to thrust with this. Just place it and enjoy plus it's waterproof!
Enigma 10 Function Rechargeable Silicone Dual Stimulator
The shape of this makes it a fantastic g-spot and clitoral vibrator with an easier reach.
The buttons are on the bottom of the handle, so they are easy to access
Palm Power Extreme Wand Vibrator
We love the shape of this because you can more easily reach your clitoris or anywhere else you want stimulation.
This has the power of a big wand while being smaller and lighter as well as cordless and rechargeable.
First Time G-Spot Tulip Vibrator
This is a very affordable option with an extremely long handle and an easy turn dial base for power and vibration intensity
Works great as an insertable or as a clitoral vibrator
Silicone Grip Thruster 7.5 Inch G-Spot Dildo
A nice long handle on an average sized dildo made of body safe silicone and with a great g-spot or prostate curve.
The handle has extra textured grips and a flared stopper so you can use this for anal as well.
Ruse 18-inch Silicone Double Dildo
Double dildos can give you that extra reach you need
This one is super flexible so you can hold one end for thrusting while the other end is inserted
FINGER WORN VIBRATORS
Keeping your grip on a sex toy can be a challenge for any number of reasons. Here are some favorites of ours that have finger holds or straps to help you hang on.
Aria Mi Vibe Bullet Vibrator Kit
The finger hold keeps this affordable vibrator in your grip
You can take the sleeve off and use the bullet part on its own
Fantasy for Her Waterproof Finger Vibrator
Shaped to contour to both your hand and body
The finger strap is adjustable and fits over 2 fingers for better grip
Simple and True Silicone G-Spot Finger Extender
Easy to use, this is great for folks who can’t quite reach the clitoris or g-spot
There is no vibration on this item but it is textured to give you extra stimulation
HANDS-FREE and LAY ON VIBRATORS
Our choices for lay on vibrators can be used tucked into place against your clitoris as you lay down and enjoy the sensations. Of course, how well it stays in place depends on how much you move around, and you will generally still have to reach down to control the buttons. Hands-free on the other hand would need to be placed but can then be controlled with a remote control or an app so you don’t have to reach down to control it.
Dame Pom Handheld Flexible Vibrator
This has some flexibility, so it molds to both your palm and body
The vibrations are strong but not overwhelming, so you don’t get over-sensitized
We-Vibe Touch X Lay on Vibrator
A firmer body with a slightly scooped flexible tip makes this great to tuck in place and stay there
This has an extremely powerful rumbly motor for intense sensations
We-Vibe Chorus Remote & App Controlled Couples' Vibrator
This is remote and Bluetooth operated so you can place it and operate it hands free where it can stimulate the g-spot and clitoris
Satisfyer Curvy 3+ Pressure Wave + Vibration Stimulator
This has a longer, curved body making it easier to place, then use hands-free
Can be controlled through a smart phone app
Unfortunately, so many penis stimulators rely on the user being able to thrust into it and that requires hand strength and dexterity. Here are some unique products that are hands-free or non-thrusting.
Sir Richard's Control Vibrating Silicone Edging Trainer
The sides are flexible so you can choose how loose or tight the grip will be. You can hold this in place and enjoy vibrations without thrusting
You do not need to maintain an erection to use this item
Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux Remote Control Oscillating Penis Masturbator
Made with non-thrusting motions in mind. Great fit for erectile dysfunction – does not need an erection to be used.
Wireless wristband remote control makes it easy to use hands-free once in place
Optimum Power Elite Vibrating Penis Stroker with Head Teaser
Even though it’s called a ‘stroker’ you can insert your penis in and enjoy the vibration without a stroking movement.
You do need to hold this product in place, however.
Hot Octopuss Jett Vibrating Guybrator Penis Masturbator
Place the ring on the penis whether hard or soft
Wired remote control for the two side bullets
No thrusting necessary
Not what you need here? Please check out Betty’s Sexual Health department by CLICKING HERE where you will find items specifically for Erectile Dysfunction, Vaginal Dilators and so much more