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Pet Play in BDSM: A Beginner's Guide with Tawney

What is Pet Play in BDSM and why do people enjoy it? Plus a review of the Tailz Waggerz Moving and Vibrating Leopard tail and ear set. Sexpert Tawney talks about this fun and often furry sub-category of BDSM play and why it has so much appeal for so many folks.

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Video Transcript

Hey everybody, it’s Tawney Seren in leopard mode, coming to you from Betty's, and today we're going to talk about pet play, and I'm going to show you a really really awesome tail I highly recommend if you're someone who is already embarking on their pet play adventure!

So first of all, what is pet play? Pet play is a power dynamic between a submissive and a dominant in which the submissive will act the part of a pet, eliminating all of their daily stresses and all of the sort of human feelings and thoughts that we we tend to have that could be very stressful. It's an ability to be able to give up that power to somebody else who will walk you, feed you, you know, whatever the case.

This in no way shape or form has anything to do with the interest in having sex with animals. This only has to do with the consensual agreement between two adults to act a certain way and to have a fun adventure while doing so. This is also not always sexual: there are things like tails and outfits that you can wear out in public that are not insertable or that are not again sexual in nature. This could be anything from collars to outside-of-the pants-tails. I mean, there's two ears. They are absolutely whatever you would choose as your animal.

Now I'm going to show you something that I highly recommend checking out if you're somebody who's looking into getting into that beautiful power dynamic of pet play. Now we've got this: it’s called the Tailz Waggerz, and this is the beautiful beautiful moving and vibrating leopard tail and ears. So I'm wearing the ears right now. Give you a little example: so you've got this nice little fur, super cute. This is really easy to put on; they’re pretty; secure it on there as well. So this isn't super cheaply made or anything: you don't have to worry about them falling everywhere.

You fit right in there: very cute! But now I get to show you the real fun! Now it’s USB rechargeable, so no need to worry. It is battery operated, and this one does come with a battery, oh thank goodness. You can really try it out, and it pairs very beautifully with this lovely long tail. So this is a very straight tail here: there's not a lot of bending that you want to do. You're gonna want to let it do it itself. This is not a very cheap fabric where, you know, you're pulling and it's coming out. It's really nice, you can get that long-term wear.

And then of course you have this butt plug. This plug is a bit larger than your average beginners plug, which you're still going to get a few inches of insertable length here, and it's a bit thick. I mean, I would recommend if you can't comfortably put two to three fingers in for anal, you know, definitely warm up before you put this plug in. The plug itself is a vibrating plug.

Now you're gonna want to turn on the plug to be able to activate the fun next part. You're gonna want to pull away the fur here, and then you're gonna see there's a little power button on here that you're gonna hold down to then kind of get it going. Now you can control things from here by pressing that button, and then you'll get to cycle through. There's seven different modes of vibration and tail-wagging, and as you can see it has already started to do a natural little leopard hole here, and wow this is inside of you! It is thick enough and flexible enough that you're able to get it in; it’s really nice and tapered so you can enjoy that, but also it's thick enough and bendy enough that it holds this up on its own, so you're not having to worry about there being a lot of extra pressure or that it being really uncomfortable.

So it's also a not super loud toy. Yes, you are getting the mechanics of this tail moving in general, but overall, as you can tell right now, when you're … especially when you're just using that vibration, it is a relatively quiet vibrator. One of the things I also like is the end of the tail is really bendy, so you can kinda get some fun there. Now you have the controller which I just turned it off from, so that you can turn it on, and you can also move this way and go through the cycles of the tail wagging. Let me see it spin it!

I'm like, this is so long, I’ve got to figure out how to like hold it so you can see all the fun stuff. And you can also change through the seven intensities of vibration. They’re deep and rumbly vibrations as well, so this is nothing, but you're really gonna feel, and it feels wonderful. And this fits perfectly between your butt cheeks, so that you're not having to worry about it being uncomfortable for long-term wear. So if you're looking to do this as a lifestyle kind of addition to your wardrobe and during pet play, you don't have to worry about it not being able to live up to the longevity.

Another thing that I really loved about this is that the fur itself stays away from the meat of the plug. In a lot of cases with tails you have the fur kind of overlapping, which can get really messy if you're using a lubricant or if you're messing around with any oils, things like that. But keep in mind also, this is body safe. You want to use a water-based lubricant, and you want to stay away from the oily stuff to keep the longevity of the toy. And you can really pop it forward and clean, really get into that there. Again, this flexible silicone allows for a little bit of give, and although it does look a bit larger, again, if you do a little bit of anal training as a beginner or if you do anal play in general, it is certainly not too fake. You're still getting about 3.5 inches insertion.

This is a long beautiful beautiful toy. I can't, I can't stop playing with it! I just always want it, and you know what's beautiful about this: as well as when you are engaging in pet play and you're kind of getting into that zone and having fun with it there, it's really important that things are realistic for you, so having something like this where you can wag your tail because you're happy, or you can have that constant motion as well as that vibration, it really brings a little bit of extra realism into your play. So you can really become the pet, whatever pet it is you desire, in this case a beautiful beautiful leopard.

So certainly check this out at Betty's right now! I've got the link down below, and we will be getting further into pet play and some of the fun things you can engage in and bring into the bedroom with it, and how it can also help with your psyche and, you know, your play in general.

So I hope so much that this has helped clear up some of what pet play is and entice you to look into it further for yourself and your partner or partners as well.

So enjoy, enjoy everyone! Thank you again. I'm Tawney Seren here with Betty's, and I look forward to chatting with you again very soon. Bye everybody!

 

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