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Betty's Toy Box is a women-owned, family run sex-positive boutique where pleasure meets confidence, offering body-safe toys, real advice, and a playful space to explore what feels good.

The cover of the book "The Ethical Slut - J. Hardy & D. Easton 3rd Edition" by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton, published by Penguin, features a black and purple design with silhouettes of three individuals, each with a heart on their chest, reflecting its focus on nontraditional relationships. A silver circle indicates "200,000 copies sold.

The Ethical Slut - J. Hardy & D. Easton 3rd Edition

by Penguin
$22.99 - $22.99
$22.99
$22.99 - $22.99
$22.99

The classic guide to love, sex, and intimacy beyond the limits of conventional monogamy has been fully updated to reflect today's modern attitudes and the latest information on nontraditional relationships.

One of the most useful relationship books you could ever read, no matter what your lifestyle choices. It's chock-full of great information about communication, jealousy, asking for what you want, and maintaining a relationship with integrity.–Annie Sprinkle, PhD, sexologist and author of Dr. Sprinkle's Spectacular Sex

For 20 years The Ethical Slut–widely known as the Poly Bible–has dispelled myths and showed curious readers how to maintain a successful polyamorous lifestyle through open communication, emotional honesty, and safer sex practices. The third edition of this timeless guide to the ethics of relationships, communication, and sex has been revised to include:

  • Interviews with poly millennials (young people who have grown up without the prejudices their elders encountered regarding gender, orientation, sexuality, and relationships)
  • Tributes to polyamory pioneers
  • Tools for conflict resolution and instructions on how to improve interpersonal dynamics
  • New sidebars on topics such as asexuality, sex workers, LGBTQ terminology, and ways polys can connect and thrive

The authors also include new content addressing nontraditional relationships beyond the polyamorous paradigm of more than two: couples who don't live together, couples who don't have sex with each other, nonparallel arrangements, couples with widely divergent sex styles, power disparities, and cross-orientation relationships, while utilizing nonbinary gender language and new terms that have come into common usage since the last edition.

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Make sure to clean your pleasure product after each use to avoid harboring any bacteria.

Dildos/Vibrators/Anal Toys/Toys with electronics: 

  • Clean your toy with mild soap and warm water, making sure to get into every seam.
  • Do not fully submerge unless the toy is waterproof
  • For non-waterproof, spot clean with a damp cloth. 
  • Use a spray toy cleaner for non-waterproof toys or to give your toy a quick clean. 

Stroker Sleeves

  • Remove from the outer casing and thoroughly rinsed with warm soapy water after each use
  • If your stroker sleeve feels tacky after cleaning, dry thoroughly then add a small amount of pure cornstarch or Renewal Powder - FOUND HERE

Harnesses/Straps: 

  • Spot clean with a damp cloth

FOR SPOT CLEANING, USE A DEDICATED TOY CLEANER - FOUND HERE

Always dry completely with a lint-free towel before storing, and keep toys in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight or dust.

Sex toys come in an astounding array of materials, and we at Betty's want you to know exactly what you are putting in, around, and on your body. That is why we have created this comprehensive Guide to Sex Toy Materials to help you make the best choice for your body.