Bought for my GF, when the price was right. She loves it thus far, used it from a distance and she’s used it for personal play and together it performs really well and is comfortable for both parties! There is a bit of a learning curve so don’t expect a charge and go still trying to figure out the music function! From the male side you definitely feel the vibes and it’s great but once you get into your rhythm and put your back into it you don’t really feel it but the misses does and it’s really her toy 🥴