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Bettys Toy Box is a women-owned, family run sex-positive boutique where pleasure meets confidence, offering body-safe toys, real advice, and a playful space to explore what feels good.

Ember Entry Level Adjustable Strap-on Harness - Black front view on a model

Ember Entry Level First Time Adjustable Strap-on Harness

by Sportsheets
$28.00 - $28.00
$28.00
$28.00 - $28.00
$28.00

Step into something new with confidence and comfort. This beginner-friendly strap-on harness is designed to help you explore with ease, giving you a secure, supportive fit that lets you focus on connection, not adjustments. Soft yet durable materials feel good against the skin, while the four-way adjustable straps ensure a customized fit up to 60 inches at the hips.

Simple to slip on and intuitive to use, this harness keeps things approachable without sacrificing versatility. The interchangeable O-ring system allows you to switch up compatible dildos with flared bases, so you can experiment at your own pace and discover what feels best for you and your partner.

Why You’ll Love It

  • Beginner-friendly design that feels approachable and unintimidating
  • Four-way adjustable straps for a secure, personalized fit
  • Fits up to 60 inches at the hips for inclusive sizing
  • Interchangeable 1.5 inch O-ring for versatile toy compatibility
  • Works with flared-base dildos for safe, secure play
  • Comfortable, body-friendly fabric for extended wear
  • Easy to put on and adjust in seconds

How to Use It
Step into the harness and position it comfortably around your hips. Adjust the straps for a snug, secure fit that feels supportive without being restrictive. Insert a compatible dildo with a flared base into the O-ring, ensuring it sits firmly in place. Apply lubricant to your toy as desired, then take your time exploring at a pace that feels good for you and your partner. After use, remove the toy and clean according to care instructions.

Specs
Material: Polypropylene, velboa fabric, polyester
Functions/Modes: None
Waterproof Rating: Not water resistant
Power: None
Charging Type: N/A
Color: Black
Other Details: Nickel-free hardware, interchangeable rubber O-ring, adjustable straps, compatible with flared-base dildos

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For a complete guide on toy care and storage, read
How to Clean, Care For, and Store Your Pleasure Products

Make sure to clean your pleasure product after each use to avoid harboring any bacteria.

Dildos/Vibrators/Anal Toys/Toys with electronics: 

  • Clean your toy with mild soap and warm water, making sure to get into every seam.
  • Do not fully submerge unless the toy is waterproof
  • For non-waterproof, spot clean with a damp cloth. 
  • Use a spray toy cleaner for non-waterproof toys or to give your toy a quick clean. 

Stroker Sleeves

  • Remove from the outer casing and thoroughly rinsed with warm soapy water after each use
  • If your stroker sleeve feels tacky after cleaning, dry thoroughly then add a small amount of pure cornstarch or Renewal Powder - FOUND HERE

Harnesses/Straps: 

  • Spot clean with a damp cloth

FOR SPOT CLEANING, USE A DEDICATED TOY CLEANER - FOUND HERE

Always dry completely with a lint-free towel before storing, and keep toys in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight or dust.



Sex toys come in an astounding array of materials, and we at Betty's want you to know exactly what you are putting in, around, and on your body.

That is why we have created this comprehensive Guide to Sex Toy Materials to help you make the best choice for your body.