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Betty’s Toy Box

Inclusive sexual wellness, thoughtfully curated for every body. Betty's is women-owned and family-run, with a mission to create a welcoming shame-free space where exploration, education, and empowerrment come first.

Betty’s Toy Box is sometimes searched as “Bettys Toy Box,” “Bettys Toybox,” or “Bettystoybox.” No matter how it’s spelled, Betty’s Toy Box is one brand, one store, and one official website — bettystoybox.com.

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A woman in a white bathrobe gently holds the Soft Touch Massage Oil Candle by Dame (Benzoin, Guaiac Wood & Sandalwood) near her face, gazing calmly and intently at its flame.

Soft Touch Massage Oil Candle by Dame (Benzoin, Guaiac Wood & Sandalwood)

by Dame Products
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$39.00 - $39.00
$39.00
$39.00 - $39.00
$39.00

Melt into your senses with this plant-based moisturizing massage candle, infused with calming Kava Kava to soothe the body and spark connection. As it melts, it becomes a warm, luxurious oil that nourishes skin and invites deeper intimacy.

Why You’ll Love It
• Formulated for Pleasure: A deeply moisturizing, plant-based blend that pampers skin while easing tension.
• Easy-Pour Design: Built-in spout makes every pour smooth and safe—no mess, no fuss.
• Sensual Scent: Creamy benzoin, smoky guaiac wood, and soft sandalwood create a rich, comforting aroma.
• Perfect Warmth: Melts just above body temperature for a silky, skin-to-skin experience.

Light it. Pour it. Let the warmth linger.

HOW TO USE
Light wick and allow enough oil to melt into an even layer, approximately 20 minutes. Extinguish flame. Pour oil directly onto skin or scoop out with finger tips. Massage into skin for a nourished and smooth after-feel.

For best user experience, ensure the wick is trimmed and burn an entire layer to prevent well forming.

PLEASE NOTE: If burning the candle for an extended period of time, please ensure to temperature test the glass vessel before picking it up.

Who Made My Sex Toy: Learn About the Manufacturer

Discreet, unmarked shipping from our warehouses in Michigan, Arizona, and California.

FREE USA SHIPPING on all US orders $75 and up before tax and after discounts.

The shipping label will not have Betty's Toy Box printed on the outer packaging, nor any logos or branding. We value your privacy and understand the need for discretion.

Our full shipping policy, including international order policies can be found HERE

For a complete guide on toy care and storage, read
How to Clean, Care For, and Store Your Pleasure Products

Make sure to clean your pleasure product after each use to avoid harboring any bacteria.

Dildos/Vibrators/Anal Toys/Toys with electronics: 

  • Clean your toy with mild soap and warm water, making sure to get into every seam.
  • Do not fully submerge unless the toy is waterproof
  • For non-waterproof, spot clean with a damp cloth. 
  • Use a spray toy cleaner for non-waterproof toys or to give your toy a quick clean. 

Stroker Sleeves

  • Remove from the outer casing and thoroughly rinsed with warm soapy water after each use
  • If your stroker sleeve feels tacky after cleaning, dry thoroughly then add a small amount of pure cornstarch or Renewal Powder - FOUND HERE

Harnesses/Straps: 

  • Spot clean with a damp cloth

FOR SPOT CLEANING, USE A DEDICATED TOY CLEANER - FOUND HERE

Always dry completely with a lint-free towel before storing, and keep toys in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight or dust.



Sex toys come in an astounding array of materials, and we at Betty's want you to know exactly what you are putting in, around, and on your body.

That is why we have created this comprehensive Guide to Sex Toy Materials to help you make the best choice for your body.