Squirting orgasms are talked about as the pinnacle of the female orgasms - a goal that you need to achieve in order to understand ultimate pleasure. We here at Betty’s believe that any orgasm is great, no matter how you manage to have one. But, we do get A LOT of questions from women and their partners about the best way to achieve female ejaculation (squirting) and we are here for you, so let’s get started.
GET YOUR SPACE READY
Get out the lube, some toys, and put a towel underneath you. You don’t want to be groping around in your goodie drawer because you can’t find the lubricant or because the vibrator you chose is out of juice. Put something beneath you. Some women squirt a lot, some a little, but you don’t want to be worried about the sheets when you should be focusing on pleasure.
SET THE MOOD
The squirting orgasm can take a while if you’ve never had one before so make sure you’re completely comfortable and relaxed. Whether that’s a nice bath, mood music, dim lights, or just a tidy bedroom, do what you need to do to get comfy.
FOREPLAY FOREPLAY FOREPLAY
Doesn’t matter if you’re flying solo or with a partner. You need to get really aroused. Sensual massage, some lubricant, your favorite vibrator, oral sex. Anything you need to get good and turned on.
SEARCH OUT YOUR G-SPOT
If you’re uncertain about where your g-spot is or how to stimulate it, you may want to read How to Find Your G-Spot first. Fingers are great, especially if you’re doing this with a partner. There are also some toys that are considered g-spot power houses, like the Njoy Pure Wand or the LELO Mona Wave
G-SPOT STIMULATION IS KEY
For many women, squirting is part of a g-spot orgasm. Once you are able to do this, you may find other ways to squirt as well. Every body is, of course, different and what works for some may not work for you. With the g-spot orgasm, once you are very aroused and feeling close to climax, you may feel the urge to pee. This is where preparation (ie. the towel) and relaxation comes in. Don’t fight that urge. Give in to it and just allow that feeling to increase until you reach orgasm. Once you start to orgasm, don’t slow down on the g-spot pressure and don’t clench up. Hopefully you will have achieved a squirting orgasm.
PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT
Whether you soak the sheets or stay stubbornly squirt free, you’ll still have a fantastic g-spot orgasm to write home about. We hear from a lot of women here at Betty’s and the majority of our staff is women we well. Some of us are regular squirters, some only squirt occasionally, and some of us never have. And that’s all okay. Keep practicing and if you have a technique that works great for you, we would love to hear about it.