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Bettys Toy Box is a women-owned, family run sex-positive boutique where pleasure meets confidence, offering body-safe toys, real advice, and a playful space to explore what feels good.

The Come As You Are Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Science of Sex

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Take the next step in your journey toward greater confidence, pleasure, and self-understanding with The Come As You Are Workbook by bestselling author and sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski. Designed as a hands-on companion to her groundbreaking book Come As You Are, this practical workbook helps transform powerful concepts and scientific insights into meaningful personal growth.

Building on the research that revolutionized the way women understand sexuality, Nagoski guides readers through interactive exercises, reflective journaling prompts, worksheets, illustrations, and real-world examples. You'll explore how factors such as stress, emotions, body image, trust, and relationships influence sexual wellbeing, while gaining practical tools to better understand your own unique experiences and responses.

Whether you've already read Come As You Are or are beginning your exploration of sexual wellness, this engaging workbook provides a supportive, judgment-free space to deepen your self-awareness, challenge limiting beliefs, and cultivate a more fulfilling relationship with your body and sexuality.

Why You'll Love It

  • Interactive companion workbook to the bestselling Come As You Are
  • Created by renowned sex educator and researcher Dr. Emily Nagoski
  • Features worksheets, journaling prompts, illustrations, and guided exercises
  • Helps apply evidence-based sexual wellness concepts to everyday life
  • Explores the roles of stress, trust, body image, emotions, and desire
  • Encourages greater self-awareness, confidence, and sexual wellbeing
  • Practical, accessible, and suitable for individuals at any stage of their sexual wellness journey
  • A supportive resource for personal growth, reflection, and empowerment

The companion workbook to the bestselling Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

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For a complete guide on toy care and storage, read
How to Clean, Care For, and Store Your Pleasure Products

Make sure to clean your pleasure product after each use to avoid harboring any bacteria.

Dildos/Vibrators/Anal Toys/Toys with electronics: 

  • Clean your toy with mild soap and warm water, making sure to get into every seam.
  • Do not fully submerge unless the toy is waterproof
  • For non-waterproof, spot clean with a damp cloth. 
  • Use a spray toy cleaner for non-waterproof toys or to give your toy a quick clean. 

Stroker Sleeves

  • Remove from the outer casing and thoroughly rinsed with warm soapy water after each use
  • If your stroker sleeve feels tacky after cleaning, dry thoroughly then add a small amount of pure cornstarch or Renewal Powder - FOUND HERE

Harnesses/Straps

  • Spot clean with a damp cloth

FOR SPOT CLEANING, USE A DEDICATED TOY CLEANER - FOUND HERE

Always dry completely with a lint-free towel before storing, and keep toys in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight or dust.



Sex toys come in an astounding array of materials, and we at Betty's want you to know exactly what you are putting in, around, and on your body.

That is why we have created this comprehensive Guide to Sex Toy Materials to help you make the best choice for your body.